Sunday, November 14, 2010

How can a shy girl flirt with a guy and deal with rejection?

This guy made it obvious he is attracted to me, but obviously he got the wrong vibe from me that I'm not attracted to him cause I'm shy. I keep thinking about him and ways to show interest, but I'm not sure if he still is. So, how can overcome my shyness %26amp; show him I'm attracted to him without getting hurt from rejection?How can a shy girl flirt with a guy and deal with rejection?
Staring in a cute way always works with a little of playing with your hairHow can a shy girl flirt with a guy and deal with rejection?
you could tell him or send him a letter
Maybe sent him a nice card and write to him how you feel, to break the ice.
touch him...not in a dirty place...but if you see him put your arm on his upper arm, (bicep/tricep area) or shoulder and say Hi



that should show a sign.



Well rejection probably wont happen here if you know he likes you...but it is bound to happen one day...the way i see it...



Who cares if you reject me then no big deal i didnt lose or gain anything and just move on to the next...besides its their loss!
You could ask him if you could call or go out sometime. No one likes rejection even the bravest of people. But if you don't ask the pain of not knowing is much worse so go for it! Good luck
ignore him, and wear some sexy clothes and walk pass is *** when you see him, and make him want you.. than when he dose say something to you tell him that you are too good for him and walk away...
offer to do the ol' rusty gillespie on him.

that never ceases tp amaze. chech it out in the urban dictionary.

it is online.
approach him like a friend. not some cute guy. later you'll be more rrelaxed around him. it easier if you do a little reseach and find a mutal friend. then have them invite him into what ever or where ever it is.
girl just tell him in person, not over a txt or in a letter thats childish.
that a hard answer to give, the only way to find out is to take a chance.
JUST WING IT,,, YOU SAID HE SHOWS INTEREST IN YOU GO FOR IT...
ask him out be brave and do it but be ur self too BE BRAVE AND ASK him on a date
Just be confident in what you say, even if it's silly, still be able to laugh at yourself. If he rejects you atleast you are mastering your confidence and the next guy will be easier to approach because you'll shine your new found self-esteem. Each time it will get easier and easier.
Get over yourself and flirt a little, or just flat out ask him. Guys do it all the time. We just have to suck it up and put ourselves out there. We don't have the grace to just wait until someone we likes decides to come and ask us out.
He probably wont show disintrest. You just need to come out more like without being shy. Like atleast say Hi everyday when you see him. Or like you said you have to face him and just tell him that you were shy and you didnt know what you were thinking but you like him back
make slow moves..

watch some movies of shy girls proposing guys...this may help!

or tell him by writing it on a paper..

the usual means of telling some1 u like..

1st believe that telling sme1 that u like the person is not a crime..

and even if he denies you shudnt be sad,.. atleast he saved you from the trauma of not being liked by him for the whole life..

so go on say it before its too late..
Since he is attracted to you, embrace it!! Be straight up with him and ask him out! Ask him if he wants to grab coffee or go bowling. Here is the key...with me and some friends!!! If he says no or makes up an excuse then say ok well maybe next time. He won't feel weird or think it is a date since you will be with friends and if he says yes it will be a normal easy going setting where you guys can talk, have fun, and get to know each other better!



The worst that he can do is say no and even then still go out with your friends..maybe you will meet someone else if it wasn't meant to be ahaah!!!

Good luck hun:)
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