How do i tell my friend to stop flirting with my boyfriend?

ok, so i have a close friend and she constantly flirts with my boyfriend.

before, we went out a friend of mine told the girl to stop flirting with him because she knows i like him.

but she said it was on accident and that if she does it again its on accident.

but why would u do it again if u already know what u did??



now were going out and she seems to like him even though she has a boyfriend.

she flirts with him a lot but i dnt show that im jealous because shes just gonna say that no shes not flirting wen she is. blah blah.



so how can i tell her to back off, but nicely, because i hate having to say mean things to my friends even though what theyre doing hurts me.How do i tell my friend to stop flirting with my boyfriend?
She's not a true friend, she knows that he's your boyfriend and contunes to flirt with him. You need to stop being so nice and tell her flat out to back off.How do i tell my friend to stop flirting with my boyfriend?
What does your boyfriend do? Does he flirt back? If he does, you need to dump him and her. If he doesn't and he's uncomfortable, then you need to dump your friend. She's no friend, if she's doing that to you.
Some people are naturally flirty. They don't flirt in order for it to go anywhere, they are, often despite appearances, insecure, and need to have attention from more than just their boyfriend to make themselves feel better. This doesn't excuse it. However, they know EXACTLY what they're doing, and flirt quite deliberately. I get the sense from her responses that she may be one of these people, and they are frequently quite damaging people to be around, as this behaviour is unlikely to change throughout their lives because it gives them energy and gives them power over people.



There is no nice way to tell her. You have to mark your territory, and show her that it matters to you. Tell her he is your boyfriend and that her flirting is inappropriate and unwelcome. It may or may not work. You should decide in advance how far you are willing to push it - would you rather keep her as your friend and deal with her flirting with your boyfriend, or are you willing to remove her from your circle of friends.



You haven't mentioned whether your boyfriend responds to her flirting or not. If he does, tell him that you don't like it, and that he should make it clear to her that it's not appropriate (and he should not say it comes from you, it should appear to come from him). This might be a more effective approach if she is a natural flirt.



If she's not a natural flirt, then she's interested in your boyfriend, and is trying to tease him into feeling the same way about her. That's not the act of a true friend, IMHO.
she could be like me... im to say a flirty type... the way i act people can confuse for flirting but its just the way i act, not always my intentions.

so it could be that cuz my gf got onto got all the time bout it and at first i thought she was crazy till one of my friends said it was cuz how i acted round other chicks.



so it could be this, maybe not... i'm only giving extra insight
The one who should be telling her to back off is her boyfriend. (That's who you should tell all about her flirting)

The next time she is doing it, ask her, if ';so %26amp; so' would approve of her flirtations. Nicely!

That should back her off



~You better get use to it because most girls are like that

If a guy is alone at a dance and he ask a girl to dance, he most likely would get turned down, but, if he was with a girl, than all of a sudden, he becomes the main attraction.

We get in trouble for nothing. You can't even say ';Hello'; to someone you know without getting a dirty look from your girlfriend
Flirt with her bf, that''ll give her a taste of her own medicine. (:
Well, you should just tell her that you don't really like how she is around him. But say it nicely. Tell her that you kinda feel like she is trying to take your boyfriend away, and you don't feel comfortable with that.

And talk to your boyfriend about it. Maybe he can tell her he doesn't feel comfortable with her being like that, if he feels that way.

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