How do you know when a girl flirts with you?

I am totally oblivious to how women show their interested. They often look into my eyes without blinking with that cute doggie look and wait for me to respond, or something...



How do I know if a women is flirting with me and how do I know if she's attracted to me. What are the signs? Help..How do you know when a girl flirts with you?
The only way you can truly know if a person has feelings for you is to ask. By asking, you can be sure the answer is sincere as it came directly from said person (unless they lie).

If you don't think you can manage that, here are some tell-tale signs:



- Acts more mature/immature when you’re around

- Allows you into ';personal space';

- Always backs you up - supportive

- Apologizes a lot

- Asks his/her friends about you

- Asks who you like

- Becomes oddly itchy (scratching of the head, arm, neck etc.)

- Behaviour generally changes (gets louder or goes quiet when you're around)

- Blinks more than usual in conversation with you

- Blushes and/or sweats around you

- Calls/texts for random reasons (homework, see what you’re up to etc.)

- Compliments you - tells you you smell nice, look nice etc.)

- Copies you – you do something one day, he/she’s doing it the next

- Doesn't talk/ask you for things, but will talk/ask everyone around you (shy)

- Eyebrows rise when he/she sees you (even for a quick second)

- Eyes become ';soft'; or “intimate” when looking at you

- Eyes travel in a circle around your face when talking to you

- Facial expression changes when he/she sees you/you're around

- Feet and/or upper body point in your direction

- Finds reasons to talk to you (sometimes lame reasons)

- Frequently touches his/her face

- Friends aren't really a top priority for him/her

- Friends know you, but you don't know them

- Friends pay attention to you

- Friends smile at you

- Friends start talking to you and asking you questions (about him/her usually)

- Gazes into your eyes with deep interest

- Gives you a nickname

- Gives you his/her undivided attention

- Hangs around you a lot

- Holds his thumbs in his belt loops (cowboy stance)

- If you flirt with them, they flirt back

- If you are in a bad mood, he/she will try to make you feel better

- Initiates dates

- Is there for you when you're down

- Jokes around with you

- Laughs at your jokes/unfunny things you say

- Licks his/her lips (wants to kiss you)

- Listens to you and remembers what you say

- Looks at you when he/she's talking to other people

- Makes future plans with you (movies on Friday, etc.)

- May act weird around you/seem nervous

- May avoid you out of nervousness

- May get the ';feeling'; they’re watching you, but can never catch them

- May poke you or play with your hair, etc.

- May seem jealous when you look at/talk about other guys/girls

- May stare with “puppy dog” eyes

- Mirrors (copies) you

- Mood changes with yours (happy when you are, sad when you are etc.)

- Mouth opens a little when he/she sees you/talks to you

- Nice to your friends (maybe extra nice)

- Plays footsie

- Plays with his/her hair

- Preens (straightens tie, runs fingers through hair etc.)

- Pupils dilate

- Reacts positively to flirting

- Remembers your name/talking to you/your conversations etc.

- Remembers little quirks about you that others would easily forget

- Respects you (doesn’t try and make you jealous by flirting with other girls)

- Says dumb things just to keep you talking

- Says, ';hi,'; to you a lot

- Seems happy when you’re around

- Seems sad when you ignore him/her

- Sits/stands in the ';open'; position (facing you and arms/legs uncrossed)

- Sits next to you whenever/wherever he can

- Sits up straight and muscles appear firm

- Smiles back at you (esp. wide)

- Smiles more when you’re around

- Stares a lot (esp. right into your eyes) and holds the stare for longer than usual

- Stutters/mumbles when he/she speaks to you

- Talks to your friends

- Talks/asks for things often (outgoing)

- Teases you a lot (calls you names, etc.)

- Touches you (rubs up against you and the like) ';accidentally';

- Tries to hold your hand/touch you ';accidentally';

- Tries to impress you (perhaps with material things – cell phone, car, etc.)

- Tries to make you laugh

- Voice changes when he talks to you (gets softer)

- Walks by a lot (if he/she can)

- Watches your lips (dead giveaway)

- Will act foolish (to get your attention)

- Will do small favours for you

- Will focus on you in a group

- Will hang on your every word (seems to)

- Will help you whenever he can

- Will sometimes choose you over his/her friends

- Will try and hug you whenever he/she can (when you're mad, sad, etc.)

- Will try to make you laugh (even if it involves him/her getting hurt)

- Will stare until you catch him/her (shy)

- Winks at you

- You bump into him/her a lot of places



There are not many signs that a shy or reserved girl/guy may like you, as those particular signs are too similar to simple acts of kindness and friendliness. When you’re looking for signs you should be looking for how the person changes when they're with you and when they're with other people. Good luck!How do you know when a girl flirts with you?
If she grabs your dick, she's flirting with you.
Playing with their hair while talking to you is said to be the most obvious sign a girl is interested in you according to body language experts. (this isn't true all the time though).
hahahahha your stupid.

seriously its not obvious ??
she takes her pants off