Sunday, November 14, 2010

Guys, how can a girl flirt that would make you feel interested in that girl? Serious guy answers only please?

I don't want to be too flirty and over do it. Or come off as a s**t. What is it that a girl does when she flirts with you that makes you guys feel really good about her and interested in pursuing her..... and I mean for something more than to bang her. No crude answers please.Guys, how can a girl flirt that would make you feel interested in that girl? Serious guy answers only please?
each guy is different, but a few things that always seem to work are, smile at him , give that little wave,,see if he responds.walk by maybe say hello or start talking to him.and by no means if you give him your phone number does it mean anything wrong, maybe he is a bit shy also and a phone call would be the best way to break the ice,,and he will know its OK to call because you did in fact give him your numberGuys, how can a girl flirt that would make you feel interested in that girl? Serious guy answers only please?
Personally I like it when a girl is aggressive. And I don't necessarily mean in a physical way. Just go up to him and tell him you think he's cute and you're interested in him and the just start talking with him and get to know each other better. You being so aggressive and open will defiantly make you stand out in his mind and you trying to learn more about him and telling him about you will show him that this isn't something you do all the time and are truly interested in him.
I like it when a girl plays around with me. Especially when she's smiling, laughing and showing she's having a good time around me. When she shows she has interest in me.



The only time I wouldn't like the flirting is if I never liked her, didn't find her attractive, or she got on my nerves for being a motor-mouth or being fake.
Flirting is a form of human interaction, usually expressing a sexual or romantic interest in the other person. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated.



Flirting is often used as a means of expressing interest and gauging the other person's interest in courtship, which can continue into long term relationships. Alternatively, it may simply be a prelude to casual sex with no continuing relationship.



In other situations, it may be done simply for immediate entertainment, with no intention of developing any further relationship. This type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious, or it may be viewed as ';cheating'; if the person is already in a romantic relationship with someone else.



People who flirt may speak and act in a way that suggests greater intimacy than is generally considered appropriate to the relationship (or to the amount of time the two people have known each other), without actually saying or doing anything that breaches any serious social norms. One way they accomplish this is to communicate a sense of playfulness or irony. Double entendres, with one meaning more formally appropriate and another more suggestive, may be used.



Flirting may consist of stylized gestures, language, body language, postures, and physiologic signs. Among these, at least in Western society, are:

- Eye contact, batting eyelashes, etc.

- ';Protean'; signals, such as touching one's hair

- Casual touches; such as a woman gently touching a man's arm during conversation

- Smiling suggestively

- Winking

- Sending notes, poems, or small gifts

- Online chat, is a common modern tactic as well as other one-on-one and direct messaging services

- Footsies, the ';feet under the table'; practice

- Teasing



While some of the subconscious signs are universal across cultures, flirting etiquette varies significantly across cultures which can lead to misunderstandings. There are differences in how closely people should stand (proxemics), how long to hold eye contact, and so forth[1].



The origin of the word flirt is obscure. The Oxford English Dictionary (first edition) associates it with such onomatopoeic words as flit and flick, emphasizing a lack of seriousness; on the other hand, it has been attributed to the old French ';Conter fleurette';, which means ';to (try to) seduce'; by the dropping of flower leaves, that is, ';to speak sweet nothings';. This expression is no longer used in French, but the English gallicism to flirt has made its way and has now become an anglicism.
if you make a little bit of fuss of a man they will get the picture just maintain eye contact and show your into what he has to say keep smiling and a little laugh if he makes a joke
tell him that is best way .do not flirt .tell him this you and i today at 5:00 pm .we have a date...do not beat around the bush.i do not think guys like that beating around bush thing at all. so good luck a41 old man..take what you it is your.OK
I like it best when there's a significant person behind the flirting. Flirting is outstanding, but it wears thin quickly without substance.
I do not think that there is a science to flirting. Stuff like this just comes naturally.



If you feel really happy and comfortable about yourself, you will naturally exude that confidence, that ';air.';



And with that ';confidence,'; give the guy your most sincere smile. And that should do it.



In short form -



Confidence + Sincere Smile = Ka-boom!



Cheers!

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