Friday, November 12, 2010

GUYS HELP ME PLZ! in what ways would u like a girl to flirt with you?

how should a girl flirt with a guy? what do u like that girls do to flirt with you? What dont you like?GUYS HELP ME PLZ! in what ways would u like a girl to flirt with you?
Flirting tips:



Use nonverbal signals -- eye contact, standing just a little closer than normal, facing the person when he or she is speaking. Smile, lower your head and then look up through your eyelashes. Play with your hair when talking to the person.



Wait for a response before sending the next signal. If the person backs away, frowns, folds arms or starts flirting with someone else, don't make things worse by following him/her around. You've got your answer.



Flirting is fun, but only if you don't take it too seriously. Most of the time, you'll just flirt with someone for a short time and then maybe never talk to them again. If you always go in to flirting expecting to date or even marry the person you're flirting with, you're going to be very disappointed--and you'll probably seem a little desperate. Remember, you're just flirting.



Look approachable. Relax and smile. Use your body language to give signals that you are the fun person that you are, and to show that you're comfortable and confident. There's nothing to be nervous about.



Read body language. Does the person look approachable? Do they appear interested in you? From the moment you see someone with whom you might want to flirt, you should read his or her body language. Once you're actually flirting with the person, body language is often the only way to tell if the person is actually interested in you . We all have a natural ability to read body language, but it's easy to misread signals, so be careful and take it slow. If you see one signal that indicates the person is interested in you, watch for other signals that might confirm that.



Make eye contact, but not for more than a moment or two. Do not stare. Just shoot the person a quick gaze, smile with your eyes, and then slowly look away. If you look back and notice the person looking back to meet your eyes, they're likely interested in flirting a bit.



Initiate a conversation with the person you're interested in. If you don't already know them simply make small talk. Perhaps the best way to strike up a conversation is to start with a simple observation which ends with a question: ';Nice day, isn't it?'; or ';This place sure is packed, eh?'; are just a couple examples. What you say isn't important. You don't really need an answer to the question; you are simply inviting the person to talk with you. If the person responds pleasantly, continue the conversation. If the person doesn't respond or seems preoccupied or disinterested, he or she probably isn't interested in flirting with you. At the beginning of the conversation, you don't want to talk about anything personal. Talk about the environment around you, the show you just saw, etc., but don't talk much about yourself and don't ask the other person personal questions.GUYS HELP ME PLZ! in what ways would u like a girl to flirt with you?
blink their eye at you look at you in sexy way with a candy in their mouth and tell you to come over
To successfully flirt with a guy, the first thing you need is a spin. What makes you interesting? Why should _he_ pick _you_? Are you sexy? Are you cute? Are you sensitive? Are you so crazy about him that you'd do anything to make him happy? You need to find something, and then go by that. Of course, with any spin you're going to find at least one guy who's not going to accept it. To keep this from happening, I would suggest doing something I like to call ';reconnaissance';. Other people call it ';stalking';, but it works. Anyway, I can't answer that question unless I know your spin.
I'm not a man, but I know what they like and dislike.

When flirting with either sex, it's best to take a subtle approach. Smile, make a lot of eye contact when speaking. Compliment them but NOT excessively! What men DON'T like is if you ramble on and on and on. It gets annoying. Show your interest in having a dialogue and NOT a monologue. Show an interest in their opinion. To let them know you appreciate them, say things such as, ';I really enjoy talking with you. Your great company.'; If things seem comfy between you, you can ask if the man wants a back massage. I'm serious! What man would say no to that? I've found at a certain point, being brave works! If the man is responding favorably, might as well just tell him that you find him attractive.

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