Im 14 years old and I am really in love with this girl ..I like all about her ...Im bisexual %26amp; I know that she is bi too ...I Have 3 classes with her... but Im shy sometimes to talk to her..the only time I talk to her is when I ask her to join the girls soccer team ..Im new to this and she is the first girl I fall in love with ...so I wanna know how to flirt with her so she can notice that I likee her ???????pts pleaseeeHow can I flirt with a girl? (Im a girl)?
............you dont love her...you barley know her.......................
get to know her
just tell her cute things you like about herHow can I flirt with a girl? (Im a girl)?
Well just flirt with her the way you like people flirting with you. Be nice touch her when you talk, stare at her eyes when you talk with a smile. Ask her to chill.
At 14 you and bisexual it means you have not yet decided because you have not had sufficient time to experiment and truly evaluate the results on both sides. Maybe you should hold on a bit longer before you decide. It is safe for you to be platonically with both sex and be yourself. Flirting is like being in the mode and giving signals but not committing to anything. It is exhausting and premature. It plays with other peoples emotions and that can produce unintended consequences. But it could be fun too if no one gets hurt. Be very careful, ok On the light side. do a make over. fix her hair, do her make up. let her do yours. touch her hands and paint her finger nails. Let her be the doll you are fond of that sound like fun
Ok let us say you smile and say hi to your crush she smiles back and say hi the mutual exchange of greetings is very nice. If you add hey do you want to do something? It is vague enough to mean anything. The more ambiguous you are able to make your invitations the faster likelihood increases that she will interpret it either way. So you have to consider she may be uncertain about her preference in sexual identity and just as timid as you are. If she does not get it that you are trying to flirt tell her. But say it In a non offensive way. Try saying i probably wouldn't get it too if you did that to me? It that lame or what?
You want her to be your friend first then in a couple three 4 years you will be grown up through this awkward period when you are sure where your preference lies go ahead. Dont get too attached, you may start something you cannot really finish and dont want to continue. Then what? Play nice do not get into anything physical be mindful. You are standing on a steep slippery slope one wrong move you can loose your balance and fall injuring yourself emotionally or doing the same to your crush.
So act like the cautious person you will become and make no move that can be interpreted as aggressive. Hang out and be cool. Dont freak out or u r 14 that means you are confused and that is normal. Hahaha have a blast try sleep overs car washes for the summer and when all else fail wrestle with out try to toss each other around. No falls allowed no holds allowed, no hair pulling second though. No good contact sport bad bad idea. Bake cookies and make a mess in the kitchen and on each others face then clean each other
Ok go have fun.
Well,just try to get to be her friend.Get to know her.She might like you to.And try to show that you like her with your body language.And watch her body language too.As for flirting,just talk about things you have in common.Ask her what kinds of things she likes.Get to know her alot better.Be sure to make eye contact when you talk to her,smile at her alot,and touch her whenever you talk to her.Plus,compliment her alot,and like i said,smile at her whenever you talk to her.Good luck.
Give her compliments and smile at her a lot. Use your eyes to flirt with her, make sure you make eye contact. Good Luck!
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